“I told my son you don’t need to be in the top three in your class being in the middle is fine so long as your grades aren’t too bad. Only this kind of person has enough free time to learn other skills” . – Jack Ma.This quote is to motivate people and to make the reader realize that there’s more important than to make in the top is to learn other skills that help you a lot when you need it. You don’t need to become genius to make your mother or father proud. You need to give your best even you get a fail or a low grade. In our generation some students think being in the top is so lucky but in reality being a top is so much pressure and responsibility. And also over thinking that if I don’t have high grade?, if I don’t meet the expectation of my mother?, if I can’t do in the top?. This is some example of question that come out in my mind when I was over thinking. It’s like in my story when I was young I dream to become an intelligent like others because we all know if you are intelligent like others people think that you are a good son and a perfect son to your mother. And many people compliment to you and of course your mother become proud of you. But if you want in the top you need to become responsible and more hardworking. You need to become responsible because when have a activity you need to pass it to right time, when have a activity you need to pass it to right time, when have a teacher you need to be quiet and always listen, when have a homework you need to do it in your home. It such as a very hard because you need to know how to manage in your school and in your home. You need to become a hardworking person we all know that intelligent is not enough if your goal is to become a top student you need to become a hardworking also. When you have a practice you need to meet them in exact time, when have many paper works you need to do it, when have a quizzes and test you need to review even it’s already 12:00 AM in the midnight. But in everyday passing I just realized that I am not happy of doing it because its not a real me. I believe that if you’re not happy of what you are now find yourself to become a better person of what you are. Failure is the opportunity to begin more intelligently. Failures and mistakes offer you lessons and opportunities to improve so keep going. Because every failure is re-direction of where you should be. Don’t stop dreaming because if you don’t give up in a right time you’ll become a better and successful in the future. And I want to end this by giving you a lesson of my life that you get an idea to live a real person of you. Your time is limited, don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma, which is living the results of other people thinking. Don’t let the noise of others opinion drowned your own inner voice. And the most important have encourage to flow your heart and institution, they somehow already know what you truly want to become. Everything else is secondary.